Then I said lets finish dinner on the grill, my son put the chicken on the grill added some veggies and dinner was cooking again. As dinner was cooking an old friend came by to visit. We got out some candles, started the fire place and we were having a party. Soon enough we had our dinner and shared some old stories as we ate. That is all about being adaptive to the situation, you know one other thing not once did hear anyone complain.
I would have to say I have learned to be adaptive, I could not tell you how many different situations I have had over the years. I guess I learned early on there is no need to cry about it, just adapt and see where it goes. I have seen people get so bent out of shape about things not going the way they wanted it to go, or upset over a word. Oh, sorry I was thinking of my children when they were young. Remember when you were young and you just had to have your way or you would scream. You had to have some kind of food or toy, but you did not get it and you screamed.
For me as a parent I have heard some screams over the years, but in all honestly it was when they were tried. They wanted their way, but it really was a fight of being tired and they did not want to sleep. I would hold them and sing or give them a ride to settle them down. They would feel the peace and love and relax and go to sleep.
The next time you get upset and not able to adapt to the situation, just relax and allow God to help you. Just breathe and relax and feel joy and love again. Everything will work out fine just allow the stress to release. Remember being adaptive is finding peace in the storm.
Much joy and love to you and yours