One time I was preparing to make an oral presentation for a proposal. The pressure was on to do a great job and they formed a team of reviewers to listen to my practice sessions. The first time was the worst and they had not problems in telling all my errors. The next few times I was feeling better, however, they still found errors in my style and words. This continued a number of times and near the end I was not sure I could do this, yet I needed to complete the mission. I gave one more final review presentation and it was the same, tons of issues.
The next day I relaxed and gathered my thoughts. That is when I said to myself, those reviewers will not be in the presentation, I can relax and give it with my own passion and energy. When I finally made the presentation it went very well, they seemed to like it and we won the contract. Yes I roared.
You know life is a lot like my presentation sessions, everywhere you go people are telling you what you did wrong, what you didn’t do, what you should do, etc. They will judge you in every way possible and if you just take all that in you will feel beat up and hurt. Relax and let all those reviews go and just focus on doing your best and be happy. People are quick to judge even when you are doing great, so let it go.
It’s kind of like watching the Olympics, there you are watching the best of the best perform and doing things you could never do. However, as you listen to those commentators during the performances you start judging too. You will quickly say look at that error and how bad that person did. You are judging someone as others suggested and yet you loved the performance. See what happened there. That is the same with people judging you. They can’t or will not do what you are doing so they judge you. Relax and let it go.
You focus on your Freedom, believe and take the actions. In the end you will ROAR because you are the king or queen of your life and freedom.
Much joy and love to you and yours