I have to say one of the biggest problems, today is lack of imagination. People get so sucked into the routine of life they forget how to break those habits and change their lives to their true desire. I hear it from people of all ages, they will list the things they need to do and tell me how busy they are, but very few will share a desire to change and what they are doing to create that new life.
Do you want freedom to live your life as you define it?
It takes work to change, but it all starts with an imagination. Just relax and day dream about your desires. Create that story in your mind, and start to play that story as often as you can. The hard part is living in your story, the old story wants control. Find ways to create your desire. Yes, learn something new while you drive around. Turn of the TV and work on your desire. I know it takes work to change, but over time your desires will become your new habits and you will smile more.
Much joy and love to you and yours