There was a time I would resist events in my life and I would fight and argue and get very mad and upset. I discovered the more time I spent thinking about that event or situation the worst I felt. The more energy I put to fighting it, thinking about it, the event itself got worst. It’s kind of like dealing with a divorce. You can fight it argue you are right, but if the other person doesn’t want to resolve the situation it will not change. You will get more upset, the fights will get worst, and your thoughts will get you down.
Then I discovered I could renounce the situation and put my energy on something I wanted. I let that situation go and focused on creating the life I desired. I also discovered as I placed all my energy on my new desires I felt wonderful. I had new energy and focus on my new desires and everyone loved me all the more.
It’s just like I keep saying focus your energy on joy and love and you will see more joy and love.
Much Joy and Love to you and yours