I believe the biggest part of this common statement is being real and not pretending. I have seen people become so worried about this they are not true to themselves. They will agree with anything just to not offend someone. I try to learn, but when I truly don’t agree I will speak up. I will ask questions to get a better understanding, but I will also call out wrong actions.
I believe the problem comes from speaking or listening with emotions. It not just your voice either, you body language will speak for you too. For this reason I listen better and ask questions before I speak up. I also focus on speaking from my soul. When you listen to your soul you will truly learn to speak of joy and love. If someone still gets offended, I just let it go and move on. I now understand there are people who just love the opposite of joy and love.
Speaking from my soul. Today I am sending you my love and pray you find true joy in your day.
Much joy and love to you and yours