Here are all my thoughts, in the last page of my book titled Thanks Giving, The true meaning is
For those who don’t really know me or what happened, let me give you a quick review, so you can feel love. First you need to really be present in the moment. This seems very hard today in our multi-tasking world. In truth you really are not multi-tasking you can really only do one thing at a time. What really happens is you are not focusing on the current task or action and you are only thinking of other things. Think about it this way, can you kiss your mate and at the same time think about your job? You could but I am sure you would not feel the love in that moment. The same events occur all day long, just focus on the moment and be present for those around you.
The next big item I had to learn was about feelings. You know men and how we understand feelings. Well the truth is we all have feelings and we show our feelings all the time. When you truly hurt it shows and when you are excited that also shows. I had to learn how to feel great and how people are reacting to feelings. You see this more with small kids, they will yell, jump around and drive you crazy when they want something. We somewhat know how they are feeling with their actions. The same applies to us as we grow up. Remember this and care for all those you meet and watch for their actions. This will help you adjust to your situations. You want to share love.
Oh yes, Love is another major item. I was taught we always have options, review every second of the days. The trick is the options are love or fear. Which do you truly desire? I focused on love and made all my decisions and reactions to others in love. This totally changed my day with all the people I would meet every day.
Gratitude is more than saying thank you. How many of us truly list the things we are grateful for or tell people a real thank you. So often we say those words and don’t feel them. I learned to feel thanks to all people. I have also created my own gratitude list I review all the time. There are so many things we can give thanks to every moment of the days. Be it the air we breathe, the clothes we wear or actions we take.
The last action I learned that woke me up was having fun. Yes, it’s not all about work or doing things, we need to take time out just to have some fun. The more you take action on enjoying life the more life will be enjoyable. Talking about having fun, that is why we are all here today. Let’s really have some fun.
Much joy and love to you and yours