Betrayal is harder than Death, I expect death, I didn’t expect betrayal.

When you are betrayed it completely surprises you and knocks you to your knees.  The pain is all so huge, it’s as if someone is performing open heart surgery on you and you’re fully awake without any drugs to numb the pain.  The next day it even open your eyes more to the deception that has gone on for some time.  The problem is if you continue down that path of pain and thoughts the pain just gets worst.

​No my friend you need to let it go, close that door and find a new path to joy and love.  It is kind of like Robert Frost poem, The road not taken.  You will see two roads open for you one of pain and another of joy and love.  When you take one of these paths the other is gone. 

Know there will be times of betrayal in life and you have a choice of recovery and moving on to a new life, one you always dreamed of and desired.  It may be different in part of this loss, but you will find the love and joy you truly are seeking.  Don’t ever let an action of someone else cause you to harm others, just let it go and move on my friend.

Much joy and love to you and yours

Worry is a waste of imagination

Study after study I have read over the years tell us most of the things we worry about never comes true, and if it does it’s because we created it.

I will be honest I too have worried over the craziest of things and yes some of my worries have come true.  More recently I have learned I can us my imagination for better things like dreaming of amazing love and joy.  I can imagine meeting wonderful people and enjoying their company.  I can imagine writing wonderful books that inspire others to love and joy.  I can imagine watching my children enjoying life and living to their fullest.  I can imagine wonderful vacations on warm beaches soaking in the sun as I relax.  I can create millions of wonderful images of the life I want to enjoy.  I think I will use my imagination for what I desire and not what I don’t want.

Give it a try.
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Much joy and love to you and yours